My city has been having issues with overcrowded schools, therefore, they have begun to build larger schools. Elementary schools, that is. For some idiotic reason, everyone is super focused on the elementary level and I guess that once they move on, it's every man for himself....
Today I was discussing this with a lady I work with. I was pointing out the large group that my daughter will be graduating with... here's how the conversation went:
Me: My daughter will be graduating with a class nearly 4 times the size of mine, yet the school is still the same size.
Her: That's because she goes to West
Me: No, it's because our population is growing faster than the city itself
Her: well maybe THEM indian ladies should stop having so many kids. I see pregnant indian women downtown all the time and they have like 4 or 5 kids already.
Me: oh, that's nice. When I go home tonight I guess I'll have a talk with Katie (my daughter) about not having kids because you think there's enough of THEM
and I got up and grabbed my purse and stomped off!!
To Ice the cake, she can't figure out why I got so pissed off.....
SOAMFB!!!!
Today I was discussing this with a lady I work with. I was pointing out the large group that my daughter will be graduating with... here's how the conversation went:
Me: My daughter will be graduating with a class nearly 4 times the size of mine, yet the school is still the same size.
Her: That's because she goes to West
Me: No, it's because our population is growing faster than the city itself
Her: well maybe THEM indian ladies should stop having so many kids. I see pregnant indian women downtown all the time and they have like 4 or 5 kids already.
Me: oh, that's nice. When I go home tonight I guess I'll have a talk with Katie (my daughter) about not having kids because you think there's enough of THEM
and I got up and grabbed my purse and stomped off!!
To Ice the cake, she can't figure out why I got so pissed off.....
SOAMFB!!!!
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Wed, May 7, 2008 - 3:36 PMWow, ignorant people usually can't figure it out.
Breathe, breathe deeply. have some garlic and breathe on this woman! Ok j/k, but take a deep breathe and know she is at the bottom of the gene pool. -
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Unsu...
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Thu, May 8, 2008 - 8:41 AMWell I agree that people need to stop having so many kids...but I think that across the board regardless of race. Two is plenty...reproduce yourself and your partner and then stop. -
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Re: the most ignorant thing said to me thusfar......
Thu, May 8, 2008 - 8:49 AMI heard a comedian a couple of years back say about California- Don't worry- by 2020 we'll all be Filipino. Hilarious!
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Thu, May 8, 2008 - 8:43 PMI agree 100%, don't even get me started on larger families... but we could have done without the whole THEM INDIAN WOMEN remark., it was a tad much. -
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Thu, May 8, 2008 - 9:17 PMOk, we have plenty of kids a yours mine and ours like of thing. But, my goal is to raise responsible, productive, contributing women. My 23 y/o is a chef, has a 401k, ira and has a ten year plan. My 5 y/o is the queen of the house! Plus we have a handful in between. I never in my life would have ever dreamt I would have so many kids, but now I can't imagine life with out them.
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Unsu...
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 7:38 AMSo why can't I have a large family, I work, I pay my taxes, I raise My children right and I don't ask for hanouts.............. -
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Unsu...
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 10:49 AM"So why can't I have a large family, I work, I pay my taxes, I raise My children right and I don't ask for hanouts.............. "
Because this planet is only going to support so many people. The next generation, or the next, is probably going to start fighting over resources (that's your children and grandchildren). People need to start thinking about this. Having too many is just greedy, IMHO; let's keep a little diversity in the gene pool and save some space for other people's offspring. -
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 11:09 AMwhile i understand your position, you must also realize that a lot of these BIG families you see are blended families. I had two of my own and when I remarried it suddently became 5. People shouldn't be so quick to judge before taking the time to find out the whole story.
The government should put a cap on the number of children you can have that they are going to pay for i.e., food stamps, medical aid, etc. I have seen way to many women getting pregnant with yet another child they can't afford just to get a raise in goverment subsidy. Not trying to start a riot but half of those kids eventually end up in jail where we, the taxpayers, support them for the rest of their lives.
It is pretty much a lose, lose situation.
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Re: the most ignorant thing said to me thusfar......
Fri, May 9, 2008 - 3:22 PMyou nailed it.
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Re: the most ignorant thing said to me thusfar......
Thu, May 8, 2008 - 8:31 PMYou got me thinking about ignorant things that people have said to me. The most ignorant thing ever said to me was "You don't sound the way you look" WTF??? Do I sound like I'm 5'10, blond, blue eyes, 34D ..... WHAT?? Or should I speak in broken pidgen chinglish??? WTF am I suppose to sound like, WTF am I suppose to look like?????
SOAB
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Re: the most ignorant thing said to me thusfar......
Thu, May 8, 2008 - 8:40 PMwow.. that is stupid. really stupid.
BTW.... homeschooling is great!!!
good luck with it....
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 5:28 AMRemember when we talked about buying an island and living there. We so need to do this. My kids are out of their minds this week. Looking into homeschooling also.
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 5:31 AMI think the most ignorant thing said to me was by one of my husband's female soldiers. She look at me and looked at me and said "you're young and pretty what are you doing with him? " to which I promptly remarked "he's fantastic in bed". Shut her up pretty quick! -
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 7:53 AMok I meant to say looked at me and looked at him and said -
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Unsu...
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Fri, May 9, 2008 - 1:03 PMWow what a bitch! I'm surprised people still say crap like that in this day and age :(
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